First impression

It all started a few years ago when I was 18 years old. We were sitting in our garden with closest friends. One girl said that she found a cute page, where you can find out your personality. So everybody in that group did that test. At some suits the personality perfectly and others were very sceptical. And here we are the web site told me that I am an INFJ! But at this time I didn´t feel any special accept from the little number of INFJ in the world. ( to be clear all of us had that super rare feeling, don't we?)

How that changed my life?

A year goes by and I totally forgot what MBTI is and how powerful this thing is. But our story continues to this October when I started to study at the University. I don't remember who asked me about my MBTI personality, but I took the test again and I immediately fell in love with it. I started to ask everybody to do the same. I could say I was annoying. I realized why are some things happening to me and why something affects me so much. I started to realized that I have some "superpowers" which others don't have. I became more understanding about others because at this time I finally know how others work. Then realized that everybody is different and I stopped to expect something from somebody who is not capable to do that because he is who is. It all sounded so simple and you might say that it´s normal to know these things, but do you really use this knowledge? Do you know why others act?
Now I am trying to look on arguments and other stuff differently. I am trying to find the personality behind the problem. It helps me to understand the other side of the person who I am speaking to. I could make a whole article about this topic.
Also, I started to accept myself as the person I am. I stopped hating myself that I stress about everything because of that's what INFJ do... Overthinking everything! I learned how to stop my endless thoughts, that was slowly destroying me and they were far from reality.
And in the end, now I am starting a new blog about my life as a little INFJ. So maybe I will help you or others to understand the little alien on our world.

První setkání

Všechno to začalo před pár lety, když mi bylo 18 let. Seděli jsme na zahradě s mými blízkými přáteli, když tu jedna holka řekla, že našla skvělou stránku, kde můžete zjistit jaká jste osobnost. Začala nám ukazovat jaká je její osobnost a my jsme si všichni udělali test. Na někoho to sedělo perfektně a na někoho zase vůbec, já jsem se ten den dozvěděla, že jsem INFJ, ale v tu chvíli mi ještě vůbec nedošlo, co to znamená ani jak moc mě to v budoucnu ovlivní. Ani jsem se necítila nijak speciální, což přiznejme si většina z nás pociťuje, když zjistí, že jsou jen jedno procento populace.